defensiveness
Pronunciation: [dɪˈfɛnsɪvnəs]
Word
Context: "relationship"
(noun) defensiveness is when someone feels they need to protect themselves from criticism or blame. They may become closed off or defensive when someone points out something they did wrong.
Example
She showed her defensiveness by explaining her actions when her friend asked about them.
Example
His defensiveness made it hard for others to give him helpful feedback.
Example
Why do you think she reacted with defensiveness when he mentioned her mistake?
Context: "emotion"
(noun) defensiveness can also refer to the feeling of being easily hurt or attacked by what others say. This can happen when we feel insecure or uncertain.
Example
His defensiveness was understandable after all the negative comments he received.
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She wasn't filled with defensiveness when her friend complimented her; she felt happy and confident.
Example
What triggers your defensiveness when someone gives you criticism?
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